Okay, so, let me tell you about this whole astrology thing and how it played out in my life. I mean, my wife and I, we used to fight a lot. It was like, non-stop. We couldn’t agree on anything, big or small. It was exhausting, honestly.
So, I started looking for solutions. You know, trying to figure out what was going wrong and how to fix it. That’s when I stumbled upon this whole astrology thing. I was skeptical at first, like, “Can planets really mess up my marriage?” But hey, I was desperate, so I decided to give it a shot.
First thing I did was to get our birth charts done. You know, those things that show where all the planets were when you were born? Yeah, those. I found this website that did them for free, entered our birth details, and bam! There were our charts. It was like looking at a map of a foreign country, all those symbols and lines.
Then, I started reading. A lot. About what each planet in each house means, how they interact, what kind of energies they bring. It was like learning a new language. I learned that my Mars was in a weird spot, making me more aggressive, and her Venus was not getting along with my Moon, which was why we were having so many emotional clashes. But it’s complicated and I didn’t get it at all.
I also tried some of the, um, “remedies” they suggested. Like, my wife started wearing a pearl ring because it was supposed to calm down her Moon. And I tried to be more mindful of my words, you know, because of that Mars thing. We even tried this thing called “saltwater cleansing” where we put saltwater in the corners of our house to get rid of negative energy. That was a bit weird, but hey, we were trying everything.
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Getting our birth charts:
I felt like an explorer, charting unknown territories. This was the first step, and it felt like unlocking a secret code to our personalities.
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Reading about astrology:
Diving into books and websites, I felt like a student again. I studied the meanings, the houses, the aspects. It was overwhelming but fascinating.
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Trying out remedies:
This part was a bit of an adventure. Wearing gemstones, placing objects in specific places, it all felt a bit like a ritual, but we were committed.
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Did it work?
Well, it’s not like our fights magically disappeared overnight. But, slowly, things started to change. We started understanding each other a bit better. Like, when she was being emotional, I remembered her Moon and tried to be more understanding. And she started recognizing when I was being too harsh, and she’d remind me of my Mars. It was like having a secret weapon, a way to navigate our conflicts. It’s not perfect, we still fight sometimes, but it’s different now. We’re more aware of our own tendencies and each other’s. We’re trying to work with our energies, not against them.
So, yeah, that’s my astrology story. It’s a bit messy, a bit weird, but it’s ours. And it helped us, in a way I never expected. Who knew those distant planets could have such an impact on our little lives?
